THE COMPLETE RESOURCE GUIDE FOR ADDICTS & THEIR PARTNERS, DEPRESSION, CODEPENDENCY, SHAME & VULNERABILITY
MOVIES AND DOCUMENTARIES
Thanks for sharing
Shame
Flight (alcohol)
The Courage to Love Documentary
Don Jon
Unlovable (love addiction)
The Heart of Man
Brene Brown on TED, YouTube and Netflix
NEW BOOKS
ORDER SOME OF THESE AND ADDITIONAL BOOKS AT:
https://allanjkatz.com/books-cds/
http://gentlepathpress.com
The Couples Guide to Intimacy by Bill & Ginger Bercaw
Prodependence by Rob Weiss
Sex Addiction 101
Out of the Doghouse
Relationships in Recovery by Linda Hatch
Help Her Heal by Carol Sheets, with Allan J. Katz
Seeking Safety
Facing Heartbreak: workbook for betrayed spouses.
Love Addiction by Pia Melody
Sexual Anorexia by Pat Carnes
It’s Not Always Depression by Hilary Jacobs Hendel
The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner
Journey to the Heart by Melodie Beattie
Boundaries in Marriage by Townsend and Cloud
Boundaries by Anne Katherine
Wired for Love by Stan Takin
The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller
Self- Compassion Kristin Neff
The Body Keeps Score by van der Kolk
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts by Gabor Mate
Facing Love Addiction by Pia Melody
The Gift of Fear by Gavin De Becker
The Power of Vulnerability, Brene Brown
Rising Strong Brene Brown
Daring Greatly, Brene Brown
The Gifts of Imperfection Brene Brown
Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction by Patrick Carnes
Facing the Shadow Workbook by Patrick Carnes
Don’t Call it Love by Patrick Carnes
Disclosing Secrets by Corley & Schneider
The Porn Myth, Matt Fradd
Your Brain on Porn, Gary Wilson
The Porn Trap, Maltz
Treating Pornography Addiction – Kevin Skinner
When He’s Married to Mom – Kenneth M. Adams
Breaking the Cycle – Free Yourself from Sex Addiction, Porn Obsession
Shame – George Collins
Willpower is not enough” by Arnold Washton
Every Man’s Battle, Worthy of Her Trust, Stephen Arterburn
In Tandem, recovering me, Recovering Us, Mark Bird
Out of the Doghouse by Rob Weiss (Teaching Empathy)
Sexual Anorexia by Patrick Carnes
ORDER SOME OF THESE AND ADDITIONAL BOOKS AT:
https://allanjkatz.com/books-cds/
http://gentlepathpress.com
E-mail blogs:
Partner Hope
Marriage: Gottman Institute
Get Rid of Porn: Culture Reframed
Darlene Lancer on Narcissists & Codependence (web & Linkedin)
Marriage & Infidelity: Dr. Tammy Nelson
National Addiction Groups Online & Local
Becoming Porn Free: Online support, phone support groups, education, coaching, and free consultations to get you pointed in the right direction).
Addo (Online support group)
Pure Desire (Christian groups)
Guard Your Eyes (Jewish Online Resources)
12 step SA (Sexaholics Anonymous)
12 step SLAA (Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous)
Local Mid-South Area: SLAA-MEMPHIS.ORG
12 Step SAA (Sex Addicts Anonymous)
12 Step ARP (Addiction Recovery Program)
Betrayal Groups Online & Local
BTR (Betrayal Trauma Recovery (Phone Coaching)
Bloom for Women (Education and group support)
12 step groups: CODA (Codependents Anonymous)
Partner: COSA: Tuesday nights at 7, Mullens Methodist Church, 4 N. Mendenhall, Memphis.
Partner: S-anon: Friday at 9:30 am at St. George’s Episcopal Church, 2425 Germantown Road, Germantown.
Couple Groups
RCA (Recovering Couples Anonymous)
Trauma, Infidelity, Betrayal Books
Healing Betrayal by Mari A. Lee
Partners and Couples Sexual Addiction Recovery Packet (partner’s boundary and safety list, couples weekly check in worksheet, couples therapeutic separation agreement)
The Betrayal Bond by Patrick Carnes
The Couple’s Guide to Intimacy Drs. Bercaw
Moving Beyond Betrayal by Vicki Tidwell Palmer
Help Her Heal by Carol Juergensen Sheets and Alan J. Katz (for the addict, but the partner will want to know about this)
Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal by Kevin Skinner
Surviving Infidelity – Rona Subtonik
What Can I Do About Me Rhyll Croshaw
Back from Betrayal: Recovering from the Trauma of Infidelity – Schneider
After the Affair. Janis Spring
Your Sexually Addicted Spouse, Barbara Steffens
FORGIVENESS BOOKS:
Forgive and Forget, Lewis Smedes
The art of forgiving, Lewis Smedes
How can I forgive you? Janis Spring
Self Compassion by Kristen Neff
Forgive for Good, Frederic Luskin
Moving Forward (Self Forgiveness), Everett Worthington Jr.
The Magic of Forgiveness: Emotional Freedom and Transformation by Tian Dayton
Forgiving the Unforgivable, Beverly Flanigan
Couples / Marriage Books
Love You, Hate the Porn, Mark Chamberlain
A couples Guide to Sexual Addiction, Paldrom Collins
Hold Me Tight, Sue Johnson
The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work – John Gottman
Getting the Love you Want, Harville,
Wired for Love, Stan Tatkin
The Intimacy Factor, Pia Mellody
ORDER SOME OF THESE AND ADDITIONAL BOOKS AT:
https://allanjkatz.com/books-cds/
http://gentlepathpress.com
ADULTS & TEENS STRUGGLING WITH PORN OR DRUGS:
CultureReframed.org
http://yourbrainonporn.com
http://fightthenewdrug.org
http://www.noporn4kids.org/resources.html
https://www.drligotti.com/signs-of-teen-drug-use/
DAILY READERS FOR RECOVERY
Easy Does It.
Love Love Love
Book of Awakening
Language of Letting Go
Mirror of Intimacy
Gifts of Recovery by Tim Stein
LOCAL 12 Step Resources
Joe and Charlie’s FREE guide through the 12 steps:
http://www.upperroomcomm.com/bbsguide.
Gentle Path Through the 12-steps
Addict: SLAA-MEMPHIS.ORG
Addict:SA.org
Partner: COSA: Tuesday nights at 7, Mullens Methodist Church, 4 N. Mendenhall, Memphis.
Partner: S-anon: Friday at 9:30 am at St. George’s Episcopal Church, 2425 Germantown Road, Germantown.
You Tube Videos and Sex Addiction Podcasts:
Dr. Gabor Mate: The Power Hour
Dr. Rob Weiss: Sex, Love and Addiction
Esther Perel: Where Should We Begin
Partner Hope Weekly Blog
Sexual Addiction with Carol the Coach
Betrayal Recovery Podcast
Beyond bitchy with Vicki T. Palmer
Love and Sex Today with Dr. Doug Weiss
Brene Brown: Vulnerability and Shame
E-mail blogs:
Partner Hope
Marriage: Gottman Institute
Get Rid of Porn: Culture Reframed
Darlene Lancer on Narcissists & Codependence (web & Linkedin)
Marriage & Infidelity: http://drtammynelson.com
Depression: https://www.hilaryjacobshendel.com/