You've probably told yourself no one else could understand this. That you're uniquely broken, that if the men in your life knew, they'd be disgusted. So you keep it hidden, and the hiding makes it worse. Secrecy and shame are the fuel this runs on, and isolation is where it grows strongest.

Here's what changes everything: sitting in a room with other men who get it, because they're fighting the same battle. Not because they read about it, but because they've lived it. The moment you realize you're not the only one, the shame starts to lose its grip.

The Loneliness Underneath the Behavior

For a lot of men, acting out was never really about sex. It was about filling a loneliness or numbing a disconnection that started long before the behavior did. That's the cruel part: the very thing you reach for to cope drives you deeper into isolation, which drives the behavior. Group breaks that loop from the outside. When you finally belong somewhere and let yourself be known, the pull toward the old escape gets weaker, because the need it was meeting is finally being met in a way that actually heals. 

Who it's for:  Men working on pornography use, compulsive sexual behavior, and sex addiction recovery 

When:  Mondays, weekly 

Where:  5390 Estate Office Drive Ste 1, Memphis, TN  38119 

Format:  Ongoing group with a recurring membership, so the community stays consistent and committed 

Size:  Small and capped, so every man gets time and the group stays safe and connected 

Spots are limited by design. A consultation comes first, so we can make sure the group is the right fit for where you are.

Start with a book today, and reach out when you're ready for the next step. 

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