“Addictive personality” – you’ve no doubt heard the phrase because it sure gets tossed around quite a lot these days. Basically, it usually suggests that while most folks can have a drink, enjoy the occasional splurge, purchase a lottery ticket, do some sports betting, or…
THE CASE OF THE GUY WHO THOUGHT HE COULD STAY SOBER BY HIMSELF AND THE TWO YEAR CRASH THAT FOLLOWED LEADING HIM BACK INTO THERAPY Today, a married client with children, who I haven’t seen in two years came into my office and announced that…
A Heroes’ Journey Through Betrayal Trauma Chris’ life has just been turned upside down, picking up her husband’s cellphone and discovering a loving message to his affair partner. Her brain is spinning; her emotions are all over the map. She feels embarrassed and alone, disconnected…
This statement from a client really got me thinking how important it is to know someone’s intention before we pay attention to what they are trying to convey. So many times, clients come into my office wanting help with communication skills; and actually, it’s a…
Is Sex Addiction Real or Just an Excuse for Bad Behavior? “I don’t believe in sex addiction. It’s a convenient excuse for atrocious and unforgivable behavior.” Amy is correct; there are no excuses for cheating; it is unforgivable behavior. When someone in a committed relationship has secret…
Have you been feeling a bit low lately, but you can’t quite put your finger on why? It may have something to do with your social media habits. According to a recent study, social media use can increase depression and loneliness. For years people have…